Good speaking requires listening based on Public Speaking Courses

 
 
The majority of calls where people feel deeply connected to the person they talk to is a quality of cultivating and paying attention to the silences based on Public Speaking Courses. It's essential to take time to let the other's words settle, or to allow the words that you just said to settle and wait to see what comes next.
 
The initial and most noticeable benefit to this is that while doing this, it decreases the tendency to interrupt. The conversation becomes more interesting and you are more curious about what the other says and this has a huge impact on the way of listening and on the relationship with this person. You no longer think about the response when you're listening, you're only listening. And this means when it comes to a response, you have been able to hear what the other had to say - not only their words but the 90% of the communication that is conveyed beyond the words themselves. Therefore, it's a lot easier to react in a way that is completely suitable and in a way that satisfies them.
 
The second benefit is rather delicate. Paying attention to the silences somehow shifts the attention further to the bigger picture. You can notice the trees and clouds outside the window, the space seems to open out, "You" seem less important. This makes it much simpler to see the conversation from a less personal view. It is much simpler to let go of firmly held points of view and to see it from the other's perspective and even see a much wider and more global perspective. This is both very relaxing and also very powerful.
 
The third advantage is connected to the second, which is that the other person could also get drawn into this bigger image. There is often simultaneously a much deeper sense of personal connection, while the selfish personal aspects are somehow taken less seriously by both sides. This is exceptionally freeing and also helpful to build relationships and to fix problems. It is an extremely creative space.
 
However, do not start phone calls with half a minute of silence - you could freak out whoever you're talking to! Allow a bit longer silences than normal and maybe even allow these to grow longer as the phone call goes along or as the situation seems to call for it.
 
And this principle surely affects hugely when talking in public. You can begin your talk by spending 10 or fifteen seconds making eye contact with the audience in silence, as you may have noticed that lots of the top speakers do. Take the necessary time while speaking to pause to allow what you are saying to sink in and wait to listen and find out what really needs to be said next. Let go of the notion that silence is something to be filled and let it be an ally. It makes a great difference.
 
To learn more about Public Speaking Courses, simply contact 020 7112 9194.
 
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The majority of calls where people feel deeply connected to the person they talk to is a quality of cultivating and paying attention to the silences based on Public Speaking Courses. It's essential to take time to let the other's words settle, or to allow the words that you just said to settle and wait to see what comes next.

The initial and most noticeable benefit to this is that while doing this, it decreases the tendency to interrupt. The conversation becomes more interesting and you are more curious about what the other says and this has a huge impact on the way of listening and on the relationship with this person. You no longer think about the response when you're listening, you're only listening. And this means when it comes to a response, you have been able to hear what the other had to say - not only their words but the 90% of the communication that is conveyed beyond the words themselves. Therefore, it's a lot easier to react in a way that is completely suitable and in a way that satisfies them.

The second benefit is rather delicate. Paying attention to the silences somehow shifts the attention further to the bigger picture. You can notice the trees and clouds outside the window, the space seems to open out, "You" seem less important. This makes it much simpler to see the conversation from a less personal view. It is much simpler to let go of firmly held points of view and to see it from the other's perspective and even see a much wider and more global perspective. This is both very relaxing and also very powerful.

The third advantage is connected to the second, which is that the other person could also get drawn into this bigger image. There is often simultaneously a much deeper sense of personal connection, while the selfish personal aspects are somehow taken less seriously by both sides. This is exceptionally freeing and also helpful to build relationships and to fix problems. It is an extremely creative space.

However, do not start phone calls with half a minute of silence - you could freak out whoever you're talking to! Allow a bit longer silences than normal and maybe even allow these to grow longer as the phone call goes along or as the situation seems to call for it.

And this principle surely affects hugely when talking in public. You can begin your talk by spending 10 or fifteen seconds making eye contact with the audience in silence, as you may have noticed that lots of the top speakers do. Take the necessary time while speaking to pause to allow what you are saying to sink in and wait to listen and find out what really needs to be said next. Let go of the notion that silence is something to be filled and let it be an ally. It makes a great difference.

To learn more about Public Speaking Courses, simply contact 020 7112 9194 or visit presencetraining.co.uk

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